Step into your true polarity essence

I work with women that want to step into their femininity after living in their masculine for too long. My mission is to help my sisters get out of the box, that society and patriarchy has put us in for the last 5000 years. Owning their true essence to radiate love and beauty throughout their lives. 

For my brothers, I am enthusiastic about revealing the secrets of what women truly want. How to approach us, our language, thinking patterns and view of life.

When you elevate your woman, she brings you the world!

True Essence, Polarity in the Universe, Sexual Polarity and Relationships:

True essence

Everyone has masculine and feminine energy. We can be masculine in some aspects of our lives and feminine in others. We do all, however, have a true essence. And not living our life in our truth, comes down on our physical and mental health.

What is your true essence and how can you start living it?

Polarity in the Universe

Polarity is a recurring theme throughout the universe: the North and South poles, the Sun and Moon, fire and water, hot and cold, day and night, positive and negative, active and passive. This pattern also exists in gender polarity—feminine and masculine.

   In Tantra, these are referred to as Shiva and Shakti. 

   In Taoism, they are described as Yin and Yang.

   Buddhists interpret them as the left and right hemispheres of the brain.

   In yoga, they are represented by Ida and Pingala.

These two powerful, primal energies are the creative forces of the universe, both equally vital and interdependent. The masculine energy serves as the building block, the physical foundation of reality, while the feminine energy represents dynamic potential, always in motion. The Big Bang theory suggests that everything originated from a single point—the masculine. It then began to expand and move, reflecting the characteristics of feminine energy. Shiva (the masculine) is consciousness and Shakti (the feminine) is life itself!

As humans, we all possess both masculine and feminine energies. It's not essential to be a man to embody masculine energy or to be a woman to express feminine energy. However, these energies are often more pronounced in men and women, respectively. 

Everything around us has polarity; relationships, people, animals, places, even countries. If we are very much in our masculine, we are attracted to beings, things or places around us that are more feminine. As an example, working in a corporate job in a big city for years, occupied with analysing and outcomes, will make that same person want to get away to a more feminine being, surroundings or activities. For example to a tropical island with beautiful nature, plants around and full of colour. That same person can also have that need met in another person that is in their feminine. That is how we act. We find and attract our opposite polar. If we are not in our true polar essence, we are attracting the wrong polar. But when we are in our true polar essence, it often feels like the universe is coming towards us with what we need, and synchronising in front of us.

Sexual Polarity and Relationships

While polarity is not the sole component of a successful relationship, it plays a crucial role in attracting us to one another. It adds depth and passion to our connections. Without it, relationships may feel as though something is lacking. In same-gender relationships, it’s common to see one partner embodying more masculine traits while the other takes on a more feminine role. Just as the positive and negative poles of a battery create an electrical flow, the masculine and feminine energies between individuals generate a dynamic flow of sexual energy.

The attraction between masculine and feminine energies embodies a dynamic that often diminishes in contemporary relationships. For real passion to thrive, there needs to be a ravisher and a ravishee; without this interplay, you may find yourself with just two friends sharing casual intimacy.

LOW POLARITY COUPLES may be emotionally connected and love each other, but without polarity, their sexual attraction will be absent. They can either work on enhancing their polarity or, unfortunately, seek different partners.

In contrast, HIGH POLARITY COUPLES experience intense physical attraction. However, such couples often struggle with communication and may lack deeper connections outside of their sexual chemistry.

ACTIVE POLARITY COUPLES, on the other hand, are capable of shifting their polarity. These couples maintain a profound emotional bond in their daily lives while also cultivating strong physical attraction. This type of relationship tends to be the most successful.

In modern society, many individuals are often pushed into a polarity that doesn't align with their true essence. Your sexual essence is fundamental to who you are. Women might be nudged towards their masculine side, while men are encouraged to embrace their feminine energy. If you have a more masculine sexual essence, you may enjoy nurturing your children and creating a home life, but at your core, you are driven by a sense of purpose. You might not completely recognize what that mission is, but unless you identify it and pursue it wholeheartedly, your life can feel empty, even if you are surrounded by love and family.

On the other hand, if your essence is more feminine, you might find career success, yet your core will feel unfulfilled unless love flows freely in your intimate relationships. 

The masculine essence seeks a mission or freedom, while the feminine essence prioritises love. When two masculine energies come together, they may end up competing for control, turning intimacy into more of a struggle than a shared experience. Conversely, when two feminine energies interact without decisiveness, their intimacy can become confusing and unfulfilling.

You can choose to cultivate a loving friendship with someone similar to you. However, for strong sexual polarity, you need a partner who embodies distinct masculine traits and another who embodies feminine traits. 

It doesn't matter if both partners are men or women, or if in heterosexual relationships, the man assumes the feminine role and the woman takes on the masculine. It's possible to switch roles regularly. What matters is that true sexual polarity requires an energetic contrast between masculinity and femininity, which isn't necessary for love but is vital for sexual passion.

Moreover, denying your genuine self can block the possibility of experiencing true love. At its foundation, love is about openness, and spirituality is intimately connected to the practice of love and openness. Those who reject their essence and hide their true desires become fragmented, making it difficult to fully embrace love's openness. Their spirits may feel constrained and restricted. When they cannot access the natural ease and strength of their core, they often feel threatened and anxious, which inhibits their ability to fully engage in love. Such individuals may find themselves spiritually impaired and emotionally blocked, despite potentially having a stable relationship and a successful career.